Vicarious
1. Experienced through another person rather than at first hand, by using sympathy or the power of the imagination.
2. Done or endured by somebody as a substitute for somebody else.
3. Delegated to somebody else or performing a function that has been delegated.
Parents are sometimes given credit for living through the successes of their children. This use of the word vicarious is sometimes viewed with a jaded eye because this experience can create unneeded pressure for a son or daughter and take away opportunity for the parent.
I recently read Influencer, The Power to Change Anything, Patterson, Grenny, Maxfield, and Switzeler, which gives several examples of the use of story and vicarious learning in a very deliberate and powerful way. Oh yes, I took notes with my pen, but even more powerfully, I mentally took notes!
The examples given told about the use of TV stories, designed to show positively changed behavior related to a cultural issue. It actually reminded me of a story I read one time of a researcher who taught words to her parrot by modeling the teaching with a lab assistant in sight of the parrot. It all makes sense.
So, what are my mental notes? Life learning is an active process. I can be inspired by listening to music, but my neural network fires up in a new way when I make music. I have said that I intend to write on my blog about personal use of creative principles. You have heard me say before, Fill up. Fill up. Fill up. Spill over
This week all of the accumulated reading about vicarious learning has spilled over.
JK Rowling has been my inspiration in many ways. I follow her as a person and not the Harry Potter books. Funny! This week I was touched by her recent foray into publication under a pen name. I also researched with the librarian, the Nancy Drew mysteries, a series which was written by several writers under a pen name, Carolyn Keene. Nancy Drew was my first reading as a child related to a woman of independence, intelligence, and inquisitiveness.
"Daring to risk the uncertain…" is the first phrase of my definition of adventure. There is a great deal of uncertainty about a writing project intended to teach and model vicarious learning, in this case future roles for women, through imagination. But willingness to accept mistakes is an important part of the creative attitude. Trying and exploring are good things and reflect a curious spirit. Seeing with my spirit as well as my eyes has taken me down this path.
Curiosity I have.
Adventure I love.
Stay tuned. I plan to!